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NLC Meetings are typically scheduled for the 4th Tuesday of each month. Call (605) 310-8880 for more information regarding the meetings...
 
September 25, 2007: Meeting Minutes
Summary:

Some of these minutes might be somewhat repetitious to the pre-meeting bio/info provided on Fred & the Center of Hope. Fred was not actually able to attend the meeting, but Brett, who works pretty closely with Fred did an excellent job of represent Fred & the Center of Hope. Brett Rockvam is the Administrator at Center of Hope. Initially, Brett was involved with the Sunday evening worship hour at Center of Hope, as his church (Hope Lutheran) had commited involvement to this aspect of COH's ministry. After Brett was involved with this worship hour for about 1 1/2 years, Fred asked Brett if he would be COH's Administrator, to which Brett agreed. Following, is a framework & notes for Brett's presentation, the subsequent feedback/discussion, and then a few closing comments/thoughts.

Overview:

A. Vision for Center of Hope
B. Mission of Center of Hope
C. Ministries of Center of Hope
D. Needs of Center of Hope
E. NLC & Center of Hope
 

Details:

A. Vision for Center of Hope

Pastor Fred Wilgenburg grew up in a Christian family in Escondido, California. He attended a Christian Reformed Church and Christian schools, which, he says, gave him a solid biblical and theological understanding but also isolated him from most of the harsh realities many people in the rest of the world were dealing with. "My life growing up was so blessed; I often wondered why others in the world had it so rough. That developed in me a passion to share what I was blessed with--a stable, healthy life and, mainly, the gospel."


B. Mission of Center of Hope

Pastor Fred's vision: As the center's motto puts it, "meeting needs and sowing seeds." Fred wants to make sure Center of Hope meets people's spiritual needs as well as their social service needs. "I have learned that Jesus is the ultimate answer to people's social struggles in life," he says. "Social service help works best when spiritual needs are also met."


C. Ministries of Center of Hope

The Center of Hope is in close proximity to many of the needs in our city (3328 N. Cliff Ave). Click on the (above) link for more detail on the various programs and ministries of COH.

D. Needs of Center of Hope

One of the most popular outreaches of COH is their supply of bikes and coats. As these are very popular and sought-after items, COH always welcomes donations of these two items. If you're interested in helping this ministry in a small but significant way, feel free drop of either bikes or coats (in good condition) at their facility on 3328 N. Cliff. Thier hours are weekdays from 11:00 a.m. - 5:30 p.m.


E. NLC & Center of Hope

There was some good networking that went on during the meeting between Brett and several others in attendance at this NLC meeting; for example, with Angela Hyde, director of The Community Outreach. This type of networking may seem simple, but in the long run this is the type of networking that will get us all working together towards the same goals of feeding the hungry, clothing the naked, and visiting those in prison. As such, this type of networking is one of the primary goals of the NLC, and my hope and prayer is that it continues for many years to come. The NLC looks forward to networking with and partnering with the Center of Hope well into the future.

 
 
July 24, 2007: Meeting Minutes

A.      Attendees

  • Lois Preheim (VORP, guest/featured speaker)

  • John Lang (NLC)

  • Jerry Hunter (SD Aftercare)

  • Don Klassen (NLC, M2 Program)

  • Jerry Mootz (Living Way Church)

 B.      Highlights from Lois Preheim's sharing/discussion

  • History of Lois' involvement

    • Lois' Call to ministry

    • Lois Experience in Freeman, SD with reconciliation

    • Lois seeing the potential of reconciliation

     

  • Format/Focus of the VORP process

    • Relational focus rather than a legal focus

    • Focus on the victim rather than on the offender

    • Steps of the reconciliation process

     

  • Notes on the process

    • Movement from nonviolent crime to severe violence

    • When given a reasonable opportunity to do so, surprising how many offenders respond to this opportunity to ask for forgiveness

    • Even after varying degrees of reconciliation, may still be many loose ends that may or may not be tied up

    • Both parties often surprised by what they might learn facts about the other that did not know before...sometimes this initial illumination leads to an understanding that positively initiates the reconciliation process

     

  • Discussion

    • Modern CJ does not focus on this

    • Reconciliation heat of gospel and of the NLC

    • Much untapped potential of reconciliation

    • Need to get more of the VORP word out

C.      Other Highlights: Proposal by Jerry Hunter

  • NLC Task Force to brainstorm, organize, and act on what we can

  • Volunteers: Johh L, Don K, Lois P

  • Jerry to drive this effort: to make some follow-up phone calls and then to call a/the initial meeting

 
June 26, 2007: Meeting Minutes

NLC Area Meeting Agenda/Minutes

Tuesday: June  26, 2007

ACCSD Office Meeting Room

[12:00 – 1:15 p.m.]

 A.      Attendees

v      Mel Harrington (LSS/featured guests/speaker)

v      Sara Miller (LSS/featured guests/speaker)

v      Jerry Hunter (SD Aftercare)

v      Don Klassen (NLC, M2 Program)

v      Tracey Eberhard (P2)

v      Angela Hyde (Community Outreach)

v      Bonnie Larsen (SDSP Parole Services)

v      Gary Nesdahl (ACCSD)

v      John Lang (NLC)

 B.      Highlights from Mel & Sara's sharing/discussion: LSS Fatherhood & Families Program

v      Mel Harrington (intro)

o        Grant Sources

o        Grant Focus

v      Sara Miller (detail)

o        Model of the Fatherhood & Families Program

o        Structure & timeline of the Fatherhood & Families Program

o        Unique elements of the  Fatherhood & Families Program in SD

o        Unique challenges for the Fatherhood & Families Program in SD

v      Questions/discussion

o        Evidence-based programs and initiatives (Fed grant requirements)

o        Establishing and tracking measure of success

o        Promotion of the Fatherhood Program in SD

o        Potential of the Fatherhood Program in SD

C.      Other Highlights

v      In memory of John Sweeney: John Lang to schedule a meeting in follow-up to this

v      Needs in expanding the Fatherhood Program

 D.      Follow-ups before next NLC meeting (Tuesday, July 24th)

v      Developing a citywide/area-wide list of churches

v      Developing a volunteer team within each church

v      Developing a support team within each church

 

 
 
June 26, 2007: Meeting Resources

Marriage & Family Strengthening for Incarcerated Fathers and their Partners

“Fatherhood & Families: Inside and Out”

PROGRAM:

            Runs: 10/01/06 – 09/30/11

            Goal: To encourage responsible fatherhood within the context of marriage.        

*This program will complement the prisons existing parenting and economic stability programming.

 Objectives:

1.      Assessment Process– to increase effectiveness of marriage education by identifying specific issues in each inmate’s relationship

2.      PREP Education – to improve understanding of their relationships by involving the couple in an evidence-base education program

3.      Follow up – during the critical period after release, continue to provide services in their homes or communities (referrals, etc.)

a.       One prior to release & Three after release

 Criteria for Potential Participants:

Ø      Incarcerated within 5 designated facilities

Ø      Parent of 1 or more children under the age of 18

Ø      Be in some relationship with the children’s mother…..”Prime Partner”

Ø      Voluntarily participate

Ø      No protection order in place

Ø      Not incarcerated for Domestic Violence

Ø      If history of Domestic Violence,

o       screen out to batterers intervention program first

 Assessment Process:

Ø      Intake form: demographics & history

Ø      Consent form/Voluntary waiver & info about program

Ø      Privacy Practice info & Consent of notice

Ø      Release of Information forms

o       DOC…SDSP, MDSP, YMU, RCMU…Unit Staff

o       DV agencies…RDAC

o       Mountain Plains…Evaluation

Ø      GWBS (Assesses Mental Health)

Ø      PAS (For potential Domestic Violence perpetrators)

Ø      The Family Secret Questionnaire (For potential DV victims)

Ø      Fatherhood Questionnaire

Ø      Locke-Wallace MAT & Relationship Scale & PREP pre/post

Ø      FAPGAR, modified (Measures Family Functioning)

Ø      Identify 3 goals for each partner: to help determine need for referrals and resources

§          For them personally, for their relationship, and as a parent

 Notes:          1. Complete inmate & partner assessments within close timeframe.

            2. Complete most paperwork while inmate is still in A&0

 If Domestic Violence Red Flagged:

Ø      Refer out to appropriate agency for BIP

o       Contract with RDAC for Sioux Falls & Springfield

o       Transfer inmate to uniform location (ie: if housed in Redfield)

PREP Curriculum Presented:

Ø      Weekend format/ approximately:

o       Sioux Falls – 12 times a year

o       Springfield – 12 times a year

o       Yankton – 5 times a year

o       Rapid City -3 times a year

 Follow ups:

Ø      Prior to Release

Ø      After Release, within community or at LSS site

o       At least 3 times within 6 months following release

Provide Referral Information (to inmates and their partners) regarding:

o       Domestic Violence

o       Chemical Dependency

o       Mental Health

o       Financial (CCC)

o       Rental/Housing

o       Food/Assistance

o       Children’s Services

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Add for Inmates:

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Lutheran Social Services, in partnership with the South Dakota Department of Corrections, has created a program that you may be eligible for. 

 Fatherhood & Families: Inside and Out

 This program can help you to:

§         strengthen your relationships

§         learn to communicate better

§         be a better father for your children

§         connect with your family more

§         learn about community resources

§         earn 5 educational credits

§         keep from re-offending and returning to prison 

These goals are achieved through participating with your *partner in an educational weekend workshop (Saturday & Sunday) and individual meetings with LSS fatherhood case managers during your incarceration, as you re-enter the community, and at home and in the community after release.  Your partner’s hotel, mileage, food, and child care costs will be paid for.

 Eligibility Requirements:

·        have 1 or more children under the age of 18

·        be in a mutual relationship with the children’s mother (*married, dating, acquaintance, or simply parent child together)

·        participate on a voluntary basis

 You will be contacted if you meet our eligibility requirements.  

For further questions, contact:

    <insert contact info here>

 

 

NLC Meetings are typically scheduled for the 4th Tuesday of each month. Call (605) 310-8880 for more information regarding the meetings...
 
May 22, 2007: Meeting Minutes

NLC Area Meeting Agenda/Minutes

Tuesday: May 22, 2007

ACCSD Office Meeting Room

[12:00 – 1:15 p.m.]

 A.      Attendees

v      Bruce Anderson (featured guests/speaker)

v      Forrest Hubers (NLC)

v      Jerry Mootz (Living Way Church)

v      Don Klassen (NLC, M2 Program)

v      Tracey Eberhard (P2)

v      Angela Hyde (Community Outreach)

v      Bonnie Larsen (SDSP Parole Services)

v      Gary Nesdahl (ACCSD)

v      John Lang (NLC)

 B.      Highlights from Bruce’s  sharing/discussion

v      Bruce’s experience in Police Chaplaincy

v      Alcohol Screening

v      Other useful resources

o        Video resources

o        Beginning a relationship with someone in trouble

o        The Prodigal Son exercise

v      Open for questions/discussion

C.      Other Highlights

v      How do churches react?

v      Balancing authority and compassion

v      Update on John Sweeney

v      Notice from Don K. on training in Pierre

 D.      Follow-ups before next NLC meeting (Tuesday, June 26th)

v      Developing list within each church

v      Developing a citywide list

 

 
 
May 22, 2007: Meeting Resources
Video Resources for Training by Dr. Thomas Beckner (Director for the Center of Justice and Urban Leadership, Taylor Univ)
  • From Pen to Prison
  • Fundamentals of Ministering in an Institution
  • Building Relationships with Offenders
  • Aftercare: Meeting the Needs of Offenders
  • Ministerting to the Needs of the Family of Offenders
     
Beginning a relationship with a person in trouble

Your first challenge is always empathetic listening.
Listening that helps you understand their thoughts and their feelings.

Pray for a genuine spirit of love (Philippians 1:9-11)
You need to be with them intellectually and emotionally
You feel with the other person. Able to walk in their shoes.
Your eyes are very important in listening. (65% of the real message is non-verbal)
Try to lead so that you do only 25% of the talking, or less.
Leave your sermon notes at home.
Be realistic about your time limits but try not to mention time.

Possible starters:
Be ready with some statements or questions that will draw them out and help you understand them.
When a person senses that you are on their side and not against them you can work together on the situation.


1. Help me understand the pressures that you are feeling now
2. Help me understand the issues that you want to deal with while serving time here.
3. I'm concerned about you but I'm not sure what role I should take on this. What do you think would be most helpful for me to do or not to do?
4. If you could go back in your life and start over how far back would you go? What would you do differently?
5. What I guess I'm hearing is...
6. You appear to be feeling...
7. It sounds to me like you are feeling...

 

Prodigal Son Exercise

The Prodigal Son Made Choices
What Can I Learn From His Choices?
Read Luke 15:11-32


1. What choices did the Prodigal Son make that led him to the pits of his life?
2. How does that parable apply to me? What were the choices that led me to wher I am today?
3. What were the choices that the prodigal made that led him back to a better life?
4. What are the choices I need to take to build a better life?
5. What were the things about God that the brothers (both brothers) did not understand about God?
6. What can I learn from this parable about God?

This could be the turning point in your life. You can refuse to face yourself and your mistakes, or you can choose to
learn from your mistakes. We all make mistakes; the key is what we learn from our mistakes and set some goals that could lead to a better life. Better still, you could be freshly open to God for his forgiving grace, guidance and help in setting some
goals for the future.

Often it is not circumstances themselves that set the sail for the future; it is how we respond to the winds of circumstance.
We don't always have choices about circumstances we face. We do have choices about our responses to our circumstances.

I am inviting you to make this season of your life a turning point by setting some goals that will guide you in the
future. If you are open to it, I would invite you to write out some goals on the pages that follow.

My goal is to help you in the transition to new freedom and a better life.

"Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free" (John 8:32)

A Good Goal Has Three Parts


Problems I Will Face When I Am Released

What do I need to do to respond to God?


Signed_______________________

Date__________________________


Goals I Would Like to Focus on in the First Month After I Am Released:
 

 
 

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